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Male pelvic pain, prostatitis, IC
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So I have turned to the internet for help. Medicine is failing me.

My story so far:

It all came on over the course of a few days. Felt like a urinary tract infection but no burning. Just got more difficult to go. Got to the point where I felt like I couldn't go without a ton of effort and it hurt "inside" like right below the navel and above my junk. Also it felt like I was using all my ab muscles to urinate. What little was coming out was not a lot. I had not had any problems urinating up until this point. Went to a walk in clinic and the doc said it sounded like prostatitis. But since I had a new woman in my life who lets say was not the most honest. He suspected it could be a STD. Asked if I wanted a test and since I had been with her about a month I didn't think anything of it and said no because "he would treat me the same" anyways. Got a shot of rocheprin and some doxy for ten days. Started feeling much better things opened up I thought I was going to be ok.

I was not

I ended up going to the ER 5 days later because all the symptoms returned. Urgency, feeling of inability to go pressure inside but no burning. Was given 2 weeks worth of levaquin and a referral to a urologist. Made it to the urologist. Levaquin had made me feel about 50 percent better but not near as good as the first few days of the initial drugs. Fact... Girl decided she thought "I" might give her something and broke up with me. Urologist spent 5 minutes with me and said its prostatitis stop levaquin and take tri? Something a low dose one a day pill. I actually felt somewhat better but a week and a half later all symptoms returned. I called office they didn't return my phone call for 5 hours at which point I was already at the urgent care again. They thought bactrim would be appropriate and the urologists nurse agreed. At this point it had been a month.

A little backstory... I had something similar happen 7 years ago and went through the mill of drugs doctors etc. And finally it seems augmentin cured me on a 30 day dose. This was very much in the back of my mind.

The bactrim did not seem to help maybe improving me 40%. Still having the feeling of using muscles I have never have used before to pee still having urgency. Made 2 different urologist appoints for 2nd opinions at this point. Folks. I'm a type 1 diabetic and weird stuff happens to me. I take care of myself. However leading up to this I had been drinking a lot and basically eating whatever yet keeping my sugars in check. My last a1c was a 6. 9.

As the bactrim didn't work I called this urologist I had been seeing because I couldn't get into the new urologists for 2 to 3 weeks, they got me in to see him and he prescribed me keflex once a day 250 mg. This seemed to initially open me up more but didn't do the job completely. I called him after a week of still suffering and he recommended we do a scope. I refused at this point. Having come on so suddenly and having had this happen once in my life before I felt it was a bacterial thing. So I went to my primary doctor for advice on this. He threw 2 weeks of Cipro 250mg 2xs a day at me and said go to the urologist affiliated with his group. The Cipro got me about 50% better but I started having side effects too. But made it to the 2nd urologist who wasn't much help. He talked to me for about 5 mins longer. Said get off the drugs and come back in a month to see what we are dealing with. I agreed. He also had me do an STD test which came back clear. He did however say there was a small amount of blood in my urine. After about 5 days off the drugs and symptoms returning I called the 2nd urologist and could not get a sooner appointment. My 3rd urologist which is at a major teaching medical hospital was still a few weeks away so I bugged out and went back to the clinic where this all started at and luckily the same doctor was working that day and I told him all this. He suggested that maybe if I had had an STD and since the rocheprin and other drug seemed to help maybe I got reinfected and that's why I was till having issues. Got the shot again and this time got a Z-pack and folks I was a new man for about 5 days. Almost felt normal. Almost was better could basically pee normal not straining the works. But it started coming back again. At this point I didn't know what to do. Called my doctor he said he can't help. So I faked a sinus infection and cause I have allergies and got augmentin for ten days. This seemed to be maintaining the level I was at. Not terrible but not improving. At this point the major hospital called and somehow I was able to see them 4 days into the augmentin. I was still peeing pretty good. When I got to my appointment he checked my prostate said it felt fine and since I completely emptied my bladder said finish the augmentin and if its not 100 % see him in 3 weeks.

Well I finished the augmentin and was feeling maybe 50% still. Not as good as when I got the shot and Z-pack. My balls started hurting as well at this point which was new and I freaked out and went to the hospital again. Told an ER doc all this and he prescribed me 5 days worth of keflex 2 xs a day until I was seeing the 1st urologist again. I had called them during all this and agreed to the scope. Made it to that appointment still straining to pee but not as bad as initially and well everything looked normal to him. He did give me more Flomax which I had to stop taking due to weird erections? My follow up with the 2nd urologist is in 2 days and I dk what to do.

Current symptoms are:
  1. Still struggling to pee standing. If I relax I can get a weak stream (the stream was basically normal on the STD cocktail). I can pee easily sitting down but not with force
  2. I am now constipated as all heck and using miralax and sometimes a motility laxative to get things going if I don't go for a day or so. I was very regular before this
  3. My anxiety and stress are through the roof
  4. Not sleeping well due to this
I have not taken an antibiotic in a few days and things are not regressing as fast but starting to get that golfball feeling again

Completely lost. I know this is a lot and long winded... I typed this all up very fast because I am desperate and want this resolved.

Its been 3 months going on 4 and I peed very regularly if not too much prior to all this due to some ying yanging blood sugars.

Things do not feel normal

I have bought all the supplements suggested on this site and am taking a lot of anti anxiety meds.... Small dose Xanax during the day and clonazapam at night to get what little sleep I can but they don't seem to be working like they used too. No real pain

I don't know what to do

Input please

I don't understand how I bnasically felt better after a shot and then all these other antibiotics don't work.

Thank you for reading.
Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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So in summary: for a few months — no real pain, difficulty urinating, maybe a little golfball feeling? And antibiotics (which can act as anti-inflammatories) give you temporary relief, sometimes.

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Hmmm! So you got the erections too. Just an FYI. Just after a few dosages of Flomax, I started getting them too. That was 3 years ago. I will not touch the stuff for that reason plus all the other side effects that wreaked havoc for me. Those night time erections have never gone away btw. And although having an erection more often than not sounds like a great idea, it's not. If it lasts more than 4 hours, you'll have to go to the ER and have it taken care of. I never knew of the risk when I started taking it, and never thought the erections would continue long after discontinuing it.

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Age: 52 | Onset Age:49 (but I may have had warning signs 25 yrs earlier)| Symptoms: Pretty much all the usual suspects. Frequency, urgency, inability to always empty, burning and numbing uretheral, penile & perineum pain. Frequent urination at night.| Helped By: Internal PT. Myrbetriq helps but is by no means great. TENS to help sleep, and hand held massages of the lower back, hips and buttocks. Standing and physical labor help. Stretches and hot baths. Occasionally use gel iced pad on the perineum. Worsened By: Sitting (being sedentary), driving, sex, bowel movements, tight clothing and underwear. | Other comments: Currently trying L-Theanine
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@webslave — definitely pain... like in the area between navel and junk... right now I have pain there. The pain feels like its on the inside And I did feel sick when this initially started. Why would a shot or the zpack give me so much relief to the point where I almost felt cured? : (

It's terribly difficult to urinate webslave

Also.... when I was feeling good after that (cocktail) I like didn't have pain with anything.... I was whistling dixie because I thought I had this kicked.

I'm very lost.... antibiotics cured this for me the last time this happened.

I found this site.... because I want to get better. And these things seem to be my problem. It is or it isn't right?
Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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Also just saw a new primary care physician today. First doctor I've talked too for an hour and a half ever! He seems convinced its an infection. Actually confirmed a lot about infections not being in urine. Did a prostate exam and took a sample right after but of course nothing. I did pee like a racehorse immediately after oddly. 30 days of augmentin and Flomax again. I did make a pt appointment with the only place in my area that appears to deal with mens pelvic floor. One or the other I guess. I'm so miserable I'd try anything.

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Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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Run, don't walk, away from primary care MDs ... they know nothing about this condition.

Don't take the antibiotics, but do go to the PT.
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Webslave

Can you elaborate

I just hate all the contradiction.....not arguing

Please understand

I was planning on waiting a week to start anyways.
Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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This MD seemed pretty confidant. And had said he's treated numerous patients like this before.

He talked to me for over an hour.

Plus I got over this once the same way if I remember correctly. Maybe I just calmed down by then.

I'm so confused
Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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You're lucky if you can find a uro who knows something about CP/CPPS. Primary care people? Fuhgedaboudit. You don't believe me? Then keep on and ignore me.
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I would not have joined this forum if I wasn't looking for help. I feel like its just terrible what everyone on here is going through.

I'm having the worst time right now.

Like I just want this too be over. It came on so suddenly.

I was living a pretty decent life up until this all came about.

It's very weird how well I peed after talking to this guy about my problems. I was able to urinate freely with little discomfort immediatly after and then once after taking a muscle relaxer.

I'm looking for help good sir.
Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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That alone should tell you what's happening. You have a relaxing, stress-reducing, confidence-boosting chat with a MD, and symptoms improve. :icon3:
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More credit to you webslave..... I went to the 2nd urologist who washed his hands of me.... said I probably had some inflammatory condition and to not take the pills.

I felt my balls starting to hurt after the appointment.... they did not prior to this.... calming down a bit it went away.

I'm going to not take the drugs and try and relax and see what this new PT person has to say. My life is ultra stressful because I let it be. I'm going to actively try and change that and see what happens.

Worst case it all comes back..... and then maybe a culture will show something. Best case I slowly unravel the muscles that are all messed up due to constant stress and anxiety.

Does that sound like a good plan?

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Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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Kyle - The worst case scenario would be that it comes back, and the culture will show nothing, not something.
Age: 52 | Onset Age:49 (but I may have had warning signs 25 yrs earlier)| Symptoms: Pretty much all the usual suspects. Frequency, urgency, inability to always empty, burning and numbing uretheral, penile & perineum pain. Frequent urination at night.| Helped By: Internal PT. Myrbetriq helps but is by no means great. TENS to help sleep, and hand held massages of the lower back, hips and buttocks. Standing and physical labor help. Stretches and hot baths. Occasionally use gel iced pad on the perineum. Worsened By: Sitting (being sedentary), driving, sex, bowel movements, tight clothing and underwear. | Other comments: Currently trying L-Theanine
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But then I'll know zero infection and maybe my mind can stop the worrying.... I worry a lot about this
Age:35 | Onset Age: 35 | Symptoms: felt like a UTI with no burning at first. Constant need to pee. Weak stream / now vary degrees of stream quality/ pain in rectal area extreme tightness in abdomen and tight pelvic floor diagnosed by pt | Helped By: the stretches seem to help/ realizing its not gonna kill me..valiums good Theracane is working what the physical trainer does | Worsened By: ejaculating/ being stressed....tense stomach muscles after sitting long time | Other comments: ..physical trainer is interesting
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Kyle your answer to what is going on lies in the statement you made below. Webslave already pointed this out in a post or two just after you made this statement. Emphasis is mine.

"Also just saw a new primary care physician today. First doctor I've talked too for an hour and a half ever! He seems convinced its an infection. Actually confirmed a lot about infections not being in urine. Did a prostate exam and took a sample right after but of course nothing. I did pee like a racehorse immediately after oddly. 30 days of augmentin and Flomax again."

The text I bolded above is indicative of the placebo effect, and the power that the mind has in healing you. You truly believed this Dr. knew what the problem was and poof your were able to urinate. Now let that sink in......keep processing......ok. Now the fact that someone who you consciously and unconsciously hold as an authority figure basically told you he'd fix you, and that put you at ease (greatly reduced your fear). However, more importantly you truly believed it. Your posts are oozing anxiety (fear), and I completely understand that. I was a mess mentally when I first got CPPS. You can't urinate because you are unconsciously tensing your pelvic floor muscles. You need to calm down. Relax. Find a pelvic floor PT, and most importantly find a way to calm your mind. Deep belly breathing really helps. Meditation helps a lot too. Don't fight the pain and symptoms, that will just create more inner conflict and tension and make it worse. Accept that it's there. Accept that healing will take time. Think about what's going on in your life and what might have triggered this. If you can, do whatever is necessary to change what is causing your anxiety (job situation, love life, financial stability, etc). Trust me, I never considered myself an anxious person, but after some lengthy inner self reflection I discovered that I had lived my entire life in a state of almost constant fear.
Age: 39 | Onset Age: 39 | Symptoms: - Onset: testicular pain, severe penis tip pain, perineum pain, pain after bowel movements, pain for days after ejaculation, pain after urination, intermittent weak urine stream, intermittent urine spraying, tail bone pain, pelvic ache, low back, thigh, and hip pain, ED, severe premature ejaculation. Currently : Pain after bowel movements and ejaculation, perineum pain, intermittent weak urine stream, intermittent urine spraying, tail bone pain, pelvic ache, low back, thigh, and hip pain mild sexual performance issues. Helped By: Heat on sore areas, laying down, PT, stretching. | Worsened By: sex, stress, bowel movements, any kind of moderate exercise or strenuous activity.
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