New here, in pain and looking for a clue!!!

Male pelvic pain, prostatitis, IC
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New here, in pain and looking for a clue!!!

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Hi this looks like a great forum!!!

I'm 44, I quit work with a fortune in July of 2008, I haven't worked a day since...

I left that job in pretty good shape, it was extremely hard work forging steel, Blacksmithing and I literally couldn't take it anymore....

I've done very well just living off investments and I watch and trade the market daily...

This all started about 3 years ago... I was with a girl and it started off great for the 1st year but over time I grew sick of her gold digging ways and things were going downhill in the sack....

I began to experience difficulty taking a piss and premature ejaculation that would usually improve if I got off my ass and quit worrying about the markets and my investments... Get up and work on a project and Id be much more normal...

Well she started complaining about my 1 minute pump and dump and of course that just made it worse :boese:

So I went to a urologist and had a checkup and he says everything looks great, can't find anything wrong... I got prescriptions for Viagra and Cialis and the Viagra helped a lot :)

But still not as good as I once was, I figured at 42 I must just be getting old and I was definitely sick of her crap so I dumped her....

Now watching markets and following all the negative news 24/7 is DEPRESSING and stressful...

I decided to move out to the country in a gun and tax friendly state and paid cash for the compound...

All the work involved with moving and settling in had me feeling OK....

This fall it started going all to hell... It started with a burning sensation while peeing and pooping soup...

I've lost all interest in crazy women and immersed myself in financial doomsday along with government tyranny...

Then the pain started :boom: Its on my left side right over my cock down to where my leg hooks up and lately even feeling it on the left side of my low back....

Usually just a dull persistent pain that is relieved a bit by peeing or crapping, feels like there 's something growing in their...

I went through the whole internet search for prostate cancer and the treatments and that made me depressed and scared...

Oh yea its getting worse now where I have tingling in my left leg and a cold sensation, sometimes what feels like little shocks....

So I've been very inactive the last two months watching the markets, news, and blogs and trading and drinking heavily, whiskey and beer.... I smoke like a chimney too... I've grown an impressive beer belly and pretty much gone soft compared to my youth...

I have done well in the market at least...

I'm scared to go to the doctor, cancer don't sound like fun :sad2: I dont even have a doctor, been here since June...

So I also found info on prostatitis and decided thats what I have...

I went and got some supplement called "The prostate formula with saw palmetto"... Well whadaya know this stuff started working right away and I can actually piss normally again and almost take a normal dump :clap:

Well that lasted a few days and now its back with a slightly different pain :62_58_40:

I ordered the headache book and some any accredited quercetin product but they arent gonna be here until next week...

I tried to get to work out in the Barn today because we finally had a warm day, not much got done, A BAD DAY...

Looking like another night with the bottle and reading the net looking for a clue....
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Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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Just want to add Whiskey really helps and sometimes I feel no symptoms at all in the morning...

Sometimes I feel like I'm gonna die ALL DAY!!! Its been a BAD DAY!!!!
Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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I read about the prostate massage and tried it with a homemade tool and it did help but Its kinda weird aye???

Did not have any discharge or pain but when Id hit a certain spot it would make the tip of my cock feel like I was peeing...

The next 2 days I felt MUCH better...

My God I hope I dont have to make this a regular thing but I'm ready to give it another GO Iminpain!!!
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Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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Ill add I have no pain at all near the rectum, perineum or my balls my "golf ball" is only on the left side and It sometimes feels like bad gas and farting and crapping definitely help, SOMETIMES, sometimes it doesn't help at all....

This pain comes and goes and its not always the same....
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Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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The sensation jerkin off is different and I have reduce amount of ejaculate....
Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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No blood ever in pee or poo or cum...

Just not working right and HURTING...

I guess I'm gonna have to get over my cancer fear and try to find a DOC...

As I'm sure all of you know it aint much fun going to the doc...
Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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Get a basic check with a uro, including a DRE and a PSA test. If he wants to do a cystoscopy, let him, because it helps rule out some conditions.
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What is a DRE???

I did have an inguinal hernia and lathroscopic surgery in 2005 but that was on the right side and thats feeling fine.... The doc did say I had a small one on the left but not bad and the right hernia happened immediately one day out of the blue...

Where I'm feeling it on the left is in roughly the same spot but its messing me up in disturbing ways...
Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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DRE http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rectal_examination
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Thanks Doc :lol:

I'm actually feeling 100% better today, slight discomfort this morning thats been getting better all day to the point that I feel almost normal after the worst I've ever felt thew last 3 days :confused:

I've decided to stop drinking diet soda, I will co with regular coke should the need arise but I'm just gonna stick with water for a while...

Gotta make an appointment tomorrow, find a doctor...
Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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So far so good today :-D

One thing that I tried that really helped was just to simply lay flat on my back on the hard floor with no sounds and focus and meditate on relaxing/praying... I Have not done that in YEARS!!!!

Then I started stretching, swinging my legs around in various ways, and abdominal crunches, seems like just getting the blood and nerves/muscles on a different routine helps a lot...

I literal sit down most of the day watching charts and blogs/news and trading...

I usually do go for a 1/2 mile walk with my dog when markets close, but even simple stretching exercise has me convinced I need to do more and gradually work on a more strenuous exercise and nutrition program...

I looking forward to reading the book "A headache in the pelvis"...

I really do hate going to doctors and I fear If I keep this up Ill go and the Doc will find nothing wrong :lol:
Age: 44 | Onset Age: 42-43 | Symptoms: Weak urine flow, loose bowels, burning feeling thats only somewhat relieved by peeing/crapping a lot, comes and goes, ED, fear of cancer, mildly depressed but a permadoomer by nature | Helped By: Whiskey, prostate massage and jerking off | Worsened By: It seems random| Other comments:
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