Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Let me give you some background about my condition. I am a 37-year old male. Ten years ago I did something reckless and got myself injured on my left testicle.
I did not know then but can only guess now that, as a result of the injury, the pelvic floor near my left testicle was also damaged. The condition was exacerbated by varicocelectomy procedure performed on the left side of my groin in order to correct varicocele developed on my left testicle just a few months after the incident. Since then I gradually developed CPPS. And you probably can guess, life was hell.A few years ago, I came across Headache In The Pelvis and have been following the advice in the book with some success. In general, I go through my day without pain except when stress sometimes hits me and I start tensing my pelvic floor. Most of the time, when I catch myself starting to tense up, I would relax and the pain usually goes away. I am optimistic and diligently working towards a pain-free life.
You might start asking: "So what's the problem?" Well, recently I started to notice that it is almost impossible for me to control my ejaculation. I do not have any problem getting an erection. As a matter of fact, getting an erection is the easiest part but the problem is that after about 45 seconds of action I am ready to shoot! After much thought, I can only attribute the symptom to the weakness of my pelvic floor muscle. In fact, even after almost 10 years after the operation, my left testicle and its proximity still feel "funny". It's not pain I am talking about but more like a dull, mild and constant ache that emanates to my perineum and rectum. The dilemma is that I can't do Kegel because it will make the pain worse but somehow I urgently need to do something with my inability to control before my girlfriend files a complaint against me which she is now thinking about from the look on her face after my consistently disappointing performance.
Any thought? Thank you.
