Relapse after oral Sex

[freddy]

I've been 99% better for the past couple of months and had been using condoms each and everytime I had sex with my girlfriend. This past weekend my girlfriend gave me oral sex and the next morning I started feeling there was something wrong again. Its been two days now, and I am having frequent urges to urinate, and havent had much sleep the past couple of nights. I have a strange sensation feeling in my bladder area that keeps me awake at night. Can oral sex have such an affect ? My girlfriend smokes occassionally, so I am not sure if it has anything to do with this. Can anyone shed some light on this.

[webslave]

How often has she given you oral sex in the past? Serious question.

[freddy]

Not too often, and when she has its only been for a minute or two before having intercourse. This past weekend she had me orgasm in her mouth when giving me oral sex.

[webslave]

If she has had oral sex with you before, even if "not too often", it's unlikely she infected you. FYI we see men reporting post-BJ pain flares all the time and they always find out that there is no infection after doing investigations. For some reason, men associate oral sex with pelvic pain. There may be some sort of psychological link there. Either that, or men tense their pelvic muscles more than usual during this act, in a possible attempt to achieve orgasm despite the relatively low friction the mouth provides (compared to the vagina). Tensing the pelvic muscles hard and holding them like that during ejaculation is a sure way to flare up pelvic pain.