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[Paulr83]

I want you to know, Admin, that I can imagine it must be frustrating to hear that same ole story over and over w personalities such as mine. I really appreciate this site and I do read stories similar to mine. I read then think "well mine is close but this symptom I'm having is different." Then I do search and find a person w that exact symptom. Anyway I appreciate all the feedback and answers. Hopefully I can get the infection illusions out of my head. Again thank you.

[Paulr83]

I've been doing my own internal therapy for a few weeks now. Just a gentle finger in rectum so far. It worked great for the golf ball pain. However I've been getting coccyx pain lately. Last night was the worst. 9/10 and that's after taking a 0.5 Xanax. Feels like a circle of red hot burning pain surrounding the tailbone area. I'm stuck for now trying to learn to do PT alone. I can only insert my finger about an inch or so. It is extremely tight. I almost have to fight to go that far which isn't very far at all. What tool would be recommended? That won't break the bank so to speak. I do have the A HEADACHE IN THE PELVIS book. I'm working on breaking the cycle of my brain telling me I have an infection from my marital insurrection. It's very hard though. Every time she sneezes I think I gave her one of the STIs and it sends me off course. Maybe if I can find some trigger points I'll start to think more in the correct direction.

[webslave]

Theracane. See posts by member cppsdad

[Paulr83]

Ok thank you

[Paulr83]

Going to try to explain this best I can probably sound like a real genius. Top of butt crack right in between. Where the tailbone is. If I push or especially if spread or roll the skin apart the feeling is hard to describe. Not really a sore spot but a very very sensitive spot. It's been like that for a long time. Just ignored until now. Is this the "human tail?" Does everyone have this sensitive spot? I mean it is such a freakishly strange sensitivity. I'm describing like a damn monkey but I was curious if this is a thing w CPPS or if I'm just an anomaly. I would have done a search but wasn't sure how to word it other than top of butt crack.

[webslave]

Sounds like Coccydynia (pain in the coccyx).
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/d ... lbone-pain

Try sitting on a cutout cushion viewtopic.php?p=50941#p50941

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[Paulr83]

Thanks for that information. It also becomes painful when aroused, after sex and or bowel movements

[Paulr83]

I'm very stressed over my urination and penis tip issues. Its driving me insane. All other symptoms I can do very light internal message and I think its helping them wane to almost 100% better at times. However, I'm urinating more and more. It starts at penis tip when bladder start filling. Flow is still slow at times. Constantly have to urinate. I've never had symptoms of std in the past or a uti so not sure what to compare it to but seems like an infection. I can't get it out of my head at times. I see red tip, constant feeling of having to urinate and poof my mind is racing!

[webslave]

Vicious circle. Stress and worry over penis tip and urination leads to more symptoms and round and round you go.

There was a paper where they showed that cats that were stressed by being kept immobile developed inflamed bladders. Worth thinking about!

[Paulr83]

My wife now has frequent slow urination and menstrual cycles lasting almost 2 weeks for the past 3 months w spotting in between. She also has something that looks like dermatitis on her labia that itches and is open.. I did all urine testing at several different locations 3 times up to 6 weeks after my symptoms started. I tested negative for everything. I dont understand what is happening. I thought and was hoping I had "G.A.S.P." Idk what to think

[webslave]

Your wife should see a doctor. She may be perimenopausal and have eczema or something else, none of which has anything to do with your condition.

G.A.S.P. = go away silly person? (from Urban Dictionary)

[Paulr83]

From HTP. Isn't that the acronym for guys w guilt from a sexual encounter? I'm pretty sure Dr wise coined that. I could have it wrong I've been wrong once or twice in my life.

[webslave]

Oops yes, you're right, my bad

GASP = Guilty or Anxious Sexual Pain.

It's a useful term, we see the phenomenon here A LOT!

[Paulr83]

Webslave, I was reading an older thread where you had mentioned the effects of antibiotics in semen and how it can screw up the natural flora of the vagina. Is it possible this is what my wife is experiencing? With the open sores and vaginally bleeding for weeks after her period is over? I took some serious antibiotics for about a month. From very strong amox. Trimethoprim, azithromycin, and Cipro. She is seeing doc on Tuesday so we will find out what's wrong but this started for her a month after I finished those antibiotic cycles. I never pull out so she would have received quite a bit inside I imagine. Maybe her natural flora being screwed up gave her an infection idk what do you think?

Admin comment: Very likely.

[Paulr83]

I'm becoming very bothered by the cloudy urine. Idk what to make of this. I've tried to dismiss it but its so obvious its hard to do. Its straw colored but so cloudy I can't see through it. I haven't changed my diet and I've been drinking lots of water to make sure I'm not dehydrated but its still there. Especially in the evenings and mornings.