English is not my native language so I apologize for any mistakes. Also I'm on mobile so again I apologize for bad formatting.
Below is my story, I've been to 8 urologist, 3 dermatologist, 2 infectious disease specialist and 1 sexual infectious specialist. All say I'm not contagious and only 2 urologist gave me CPPS as a diagnosis, the rest had no clue.
February - I had sex 6 times in one day with a friend (not my regular partner), unprotected oral, protected vaginal and anal. Condom broke on the last time we were having sex somewhere between vaginal and anal. She also did finger my anus.
2 weeks later I get woken up with a sharp pain on my penis head that quickly evolved to constant burning sensation. Testicles started to hurt and the right one got enlarged.
My thoughts were, I'm having a UTI, went to the urologist did urine test and chlamydia and gono. All negative. Did a ecodoppler ultra sound all good just a hydrocele in the testicle. The pain went away after 1 week as so the hydrocele. Did also a fluxometery (uroflowmetry ) that I was told was normal, but in fact was flagged as "obstructed and below par". Only discovered this on my 8th urologist.
I asked the girl to get tested she was negative for HIV, hep b and c, chlamydia and gono. Her boyfriend also got tested for the same also negative. Both of them to this day have absolutely no symptoms and have had unprotected sex. Her gynecologist did told her she had a yeast infection.
March - I was out of the country when I got back returned to the urologist and got my Diflucan pill that got me rid of the yeast infection symptoms like tightened foreskin, skin peeling and the red spot.
However my penis continued to burn all day. He gave me permixon did nothing.
April - started to notice urethral tenderness, and testicular tenderness, feeling of pee trapped in the urethra and was going just a bit more often to the bathroom. Burning of the penis was always constant.
Did a new urine test - negative
Spermgram - negative
Trichomoniasis vaginalis in sperm - negative
He gave me Flomax that caused me retrograde ejaculation so I stopped.
May - 3 urologist have no clue so I switch to a new one.
By now beside the above symptoms I was have huge trouble sitting down on hard surfaces, huge testicular pain that lasted for 3 weeks, pain that radiated from the buttocks to the left leg.
Got tested again for chlamydia, gonorrhea - negative
Hiv, syphilis 1st and 2nd stage, hep b and c - negative
Urine test - negative
Ureaplasma urealyticum and Mycoplasma hominis and parvum in urine - negative.
By now my anxiety was all time high, had a panic attack, super fearful of sex and afraid of being contagious. My relationship was going down the drain. I was sleeping 2 hours a night for 2 weeks had to take a few days off work because I couldn't take it.
Started seeing a therapist she got me to sleep again with meditation and Jacobson relaxation techniques and cbt.
June - I went to my gp this time tiled her my story and my new symptoms :testicular pain was gone but the tenderness never faded away. Did a few sessions with a PT that helped the sitting down pain and the leg pain.
Got tested for mycoplasma genitalium via PCR in urine - negative
Tested urine sample - negative
Again in urine and this time a urethral swab for mycoplasma hominis and Ureaplasma urealyticum - negative
Also a urethral swab for microbiology - negative
General blood work all good minus my ferritin levels that were high - I followed with a DNA test for hemocromatose that was negative, I've stopped eating meat and ferritin came down a bit over the next 2 months, also did a ultrasound of the liver was a bit enlarged and dense.
Did a x-ray of the pelvis no broken bones.
Ultra sound of bladder and kidneys all good.
PSA blood test was good.
July - urologist doesn't know anymore so I switch new one got me tested for :
Uro genital tuberculose - negative
Cancer cells in urine - negative
And some urine test over 3 days I had polimicrobian but where below the standard colonies number so.. - negative
Also went to a dermatologist because they specialize in stds/sti says I'm good.
Burning penis always present, urethral and testicular tenderness remains, I can now sit but it has to be on a comfortable surface. Back pain is undercontrol by the pt.
August - urologist doenst know so I switch new one:
Spermgram - positive for e. Faecalis but I know it's a contaminant because I touched the inside other cup and my leucocyts were normal.
Again mycoplasma and Ureaplasma in sperm - negative
Still he gives me 20 days of levo that did nothing.
Urine test is clear.
I retest the spermgram after the antibiotics and it's clean.
Also got tested for hsv 1 and 2 via igg - negative
Trichomoniasis vaginalis in urine - negative
September/October - by now I know they don't have a clue so I go to ids doc, he says I'm fine nothing contagious as I did all the above testing.
I go to a dermatologist that specializes in sexual transmitted infections says the same thing, but the burning is driving me crazy so I made her do me a biopsy of the penis - negative for skin and cancer issues.
Gives me a cream for moisture that really helps with the burning penis sensation but that's all.
I also went to a new ids and told her about the DNA testing in Texas if she thinks it could help and if she could sign the paper and help me interpret the result she agrees so I order the urine and sperm sti. Waiting on those.
I also go to a new urologist that is amazed at my story and all the tests I did. Tells me my fluxometery is not good and doenst know why none of the 7 urologist prior to him notice this.
He thinks it's CP/CPPS does a drawing of the bladder, prostate and urethra. Explains that the prostate even if just a bit inflamed or tense, could be causing pressure on the bladder and urethra, and could explain the urethral and testicular tenderness and as well as my urge to go pee.
I tell him I never had any pus, discharge, pain or burning during or after urinating nor after orgasming.
I told him looking back before this all started I notice that I took longer to start urination than the other guys and that my stream wasn't as strong as the guy next door.
So this week I'm going to do a Trans rectal ultra sound. A new fluxometery. And we will take it from there. Maybe a cystoscopy if needed.
To sum up I did every test and more (still waiting on the DNA) and everything is negative. I've spend 8 months of my life chasing a bacteria/fungus that I cannot find.
I just find it so weird that I was fine. I mean I felt awesome prior to that sexual encounter and now I have CPPS.. My mind and anxiety and fear of being contagious doesn't let me go.
The constant burning of the penis/tip, urethral/testicular discomfort/tenderness, urine and semen dribbling makes me feel contagious and broken and helpless. I get relief when I sleep and just after waking up.
Sitting down makes everything worse. Anxiety makes it worst. Fear of getting back with my gf and infecting her is a huge trigger.
So my logical mind tells me this.
- sex triggered this either psychological or some unknown bacteria/fungus even tho the girl and her by are fine.
- I pushed in having sex 6 times that day and maybe messed up my pelvic floor and/or some nerve damage could explain the burning (my penis did slipped out one time and it hurt like hell)
- I just had a yeast infection, the fear and anxiety did the rest as well as my catastrophic thinking and fear of being contagious. Along with the search for bacteria.
- I had some indicators of urinary issues. Had the yeast. Triggered the stress and roller costed into this.
Can someone please help me make sense of this?
I just find it hard to accept I'm not contagious even tho I have every proof to back this and several docs tell me the same.. For me somehow sex that day started this.



