Canbob wrote:I was reading Sarno's book, "Healing Back Pain, The Mind-Body Connection" last week. In the book he refers to Prostatitis, Frequent Urination, Dizziness, Ringing in the Ears and a list of other ailments as being equivilant to TMS (Tension Myositis Syndrome). I thought this was very interesting when I read it as I seem to have all four. No mention of eye problems though.
I read Sarno's book, "The Divided Mind." He mentions all those things too. It's a great read. Supposedly some guy who had suffered 25 years of excruciating back pain read the book and cured himself just be reading the book. The whole premise of the book, in case you haven't read anything by Sarno, is that most chronic pain is emotional in nature and buried in the subconscious. In it's quest to stop people from releasing this repressed emotional pain, the subconscious creates pain in the body to distract the person from their buried, subconscious issue(s). It's an interesting concept and one that I resonate with a lot.
I grew up in an abusive home and there is no doubt in my mind that the repressed feelings I have buried waaaaaaay deep in my psyche intermingled with pain, resentment and the whole gamut of human emotions that are created in that kind of environment, is responsible for much of what has been happening to me this last year. The problem is that things are buried so deep that honestly, when I think of some of the most painful things I have endured, I don't feel emotional about them at all. I just have the memory.
I have a feeling that a lot of us here come from similar backgrounds; physically/emotionally abusive father/mother, being stifled, not allowed to become our own individual, being controlled in some way, rigid parent(s) having to live by the rules of orthodox religions etc. and after a lifetime of swallowing it, on top of all the added stress of just living life without losing your mind, finally just caused a major negative shift in our bodies.
It's too bad we aren't sponges. We could just soak ourselves in a big pail of water, squeeze out all the accumulated emotional junk that is clogging us up and keeping us sick, and be back to normal. Wouldn't that be sweet?