i got some KY lubricant, but was still unable to put my finger up there.. The most I could do was less than 1 inch. As much as I try to relax and all the different positions it's just too tight. But even the anal opening massage without going in makes me feel much better.
am I missing something? Should I use something other than my finger? The fingernails scratch and are painful too.. Plus I suspect I may have some hemorhoids who knows.. any household object? I dont want to buy any of those things cos I 'm afraid somebody will find them
anal massage.. can't do it?
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otherwiseread
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anal massage.. can't do it?
OK, too lazy to change my signature, but my sympoms have improved significantly, some went away competely. Old sig below.
Age: 27 | Onset Age: 23 | Symptoms: differ from year to year, anal/buttocks pain(especially when moving around/walking), burning when pee every once in a while, muscle tightness after peeing, sometimes but rarely burning after,, but no urgency , i pee about 4-5 times a day. Stomach bloating, hard to pass gas, occasional sharp pain in right side lower abs.
Helped By: alcohol(maybe i am wrong about this one,, helps some symtoms, possibly makes other symptoms worse), water, Beer always cures urethra pains/burning.
| Worsened By: showers, defecation, massage?, stress, winter, early spring, Snapple diet iced tea?.
Makes no difference: sitting(try putting something under back legs of your chair to tilt it slightly), masturbation(2-3 times a day usually),(update, now down to 1-2 times a day), used to ride bike without a seat on for 4 hours some days 3-4 days a week- no problem, spicy foods - no problem, 3-4 cups of black tea a day- no problem
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An inch is actually a pretty decent distance in to start with - and all you need to start treating your sphincter muscles. Insert your finger that inch, try and 'hook' the tip of your finger once it's inserted and gently stretch it outwards. Go around the clock face (3, 6, 9, 12). Do a session every night and you'll find that it will start to loosen.
You might consider doing the stretching after you've had a relaxation session or a bath.
I suggest you us a latex-free (important to avoid any reactions from latex - I had this issue) glove with KY Jelly. The glove gets round any fingernail issues.
Richard.
You might consider doing the stretching after you've had a relaxation session or a bath.
I suggest you us a latex-free (important to avoid any reactions from latex - I had this issue) glove with KY Jelly. The glove gets round any fingernail issues.
Richard.
Not medical advice: Read my progress to date : Read about my W-A clinic visit
Age: 54 CPPS: 20 Yrs Recovery Status: 95% Symptoms: Pain around perineum Makes Worse: Tension, sitting Makes Better: Stretching, triggerpoint therapy, relaxation
Age: 54 CPPS: 20 Yrs Recovery Status: 95% Symptoms: Pain around perineum Makes Worse: Tension, sitting Makes Better: Stretching, triggerpoint therapy, relaxation
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yeah, when my finger is like 1 inch inside, I can't seem to be able to go any further, because I can't lubricate there. is there a way to get the lubricant inside ? anyway, the only thing I can feel with my finger is my anal schinter muscle or what do you call it? forget about prostate or the levator
OK, too lazy to change my signature, but my sympoms have improved significantly, some went away competely. Old sig below.
Age: 27 | Onset Age: 23 | Symptoms: differ from year to year, anal/buttocks pain(especially when moving around/walking), burning when pee every once in a while, muscle tightness after peeing, sometimes but rarely burning after,, but no urgency , i pee about 4-5 times a day. Stomach bloating, hard to pass gas, occasional sharp pain in right side lower abs.
Helped By: alcohol(maybe i am wrong about this one,, helps some symtoms, possibly makes other symptoms worse), water, Beer always cures urethra pains/burning.
| Worsened By: showers, defecation, massage?, stress, winter, early spring, Snapple diet iced tea?.
Makes no difference: sitting(try putting something under back legs of your chair to tilt it slightly), masturbation(2-3 times a day usually),(update, now down to 1-2 times a day), used to ride bike without a seat on for 4 hours some days 3-4 days a week- no problem, spicy foods - no problem, 3-4 cups of black tea a day- no problem