My Story and Some Questions

Male pelvic pain, prostatitis, IC
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My Story and Some Questions

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I am 34 and as long as I can remember I have had a terrible hesitancy (shy bladder) problem. Unless I had to go very badly I can almost never start a stream in public at a urinal unless I am alone. At home alone it takes me 20-45 seconds to initiate and I can feel some muscles down there almost involuntarily clenching to stop the flow.
On top of this, around 2 years ago I started having prostatitis symptoms, mainly difficulty maintaining erection. My doc gave me a prostate exam (no massage though) and detected signs of infection and prescriped Zithromax and Cipro. BTW a urine culture showed a few different bacteria and the lab result said "MULTIPLE SPECIES PRESENT, POSSIBLE CONTAMINATION". Eventually I got to the point of basically zero libido and no erections, morning or otherwise and feeling of fullness in rectum.
I began reading and found the "other" prostatitis sites. Eventually performed self massage and sitz baths and drained my prostate - lots of gelatinous material and some possible acini "plugs". I had the 'pin prick' sensations as described by some sufferers. Most shockingly I broke open and drained what must have been a large abcess - slightly bloodly discharge like a big zit and more gelatinous goo.
At this point sexual symptoms are 60% better (I still lose erections way too frequently and the quality is not there) but the shy bladder is the same as always. I am reading AHIP and it makes perfect sense - I believe I had acute prostatitis but it was caused by pelvic floor issues. I am at a loss on where to start to hopefully complete my recovery. Also I am attempting to self-treat as much as possible for financial and personal reasons.

1) Where should I begin with the SP? Are there trigger points I can hit to help with the shy bladder more quickly? Are the relaxation tapes available without going to a seminar?

2) Has anyone looked at their own prostate fluid under a microscope? What do the leukocytes look like? I have a scope but not sure what to look for exactly - what stain to use etc. I did use a urine test reagent strip on EPS and it blew up on the leukocyte test area.

3) I don't want a useless course of ABX (or a useless string of expensive specialist visits :lol: ) but I feel like I need to totally and finally rule out bacteria, yeast, etc. so I can "believe in" and focus on the SP and muscle tension as the ONLY culprit. To this end has anyone cultured their own EPS for bacteria and/or yeast and if so how? I have access to lab supplies.

4) How does alcohol aggravate the prostate? If I overindulge I feel like my prostate is overfilled the next day or 2 and I can express a large amound of cloudy fluid. This is why I suspect yeast involvement. I also get a vague but noticeable "itchy" feeling prior to ejaculation a day or 2 after heavy drinking. Also is "normal" EPS clear as ANF states?

THANKS!!! in advance for any help or advice. I feel like the SP will be the way to go but I need to clear my mind of "what-ifs"so I can give it 110%.
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CHIGGER71 wrote:I am 34 and as long as I can remember I have had a terrible hesitancy (shy bladder) problem.
Ok, so we know you have an anxious disposition, which can predispose to this problem.
On top of this, around 2 years ago I started having prostatitis symptoms, mainly difficulty maintaining erection.
That's not a symptom that points simply to prostatitis, in general.
I began reading and found the "other" prostatitis sites.
That's more than half of your problem at the moment IMO :-|
Eventually performed self massage and sitz baths and drained my prostate - lots of gelatinous material and some possible acini "plugs". I had the 'pin prick' sensations as described by some sufferers. Most shockingly I broke open and drained what must have been a large abcess - slightly bloodly discharge like a big zit and more gelatinous goo.
Bloody discharge means you may have injured the prostate. It's very unlikely that you drained an abscess. A prostatic abscess is very rare and usually caused by E. coli. If you suspect you have problems like these, make sure you get a TRUS examination from your uro.
1) Where should I begin with the SP? Are there trigger points I can hit to help with the shy bladder more quickly? Are the relaxation tapes available without going to a seminar?
You're not meant to embark on your own treatment with AHIP, as far as I can tell. I know it's popular here to say that you can and should, but I still feel that attending Stanford is by far the best way to go.
2) Has anyone looked at their own prostate fluid under a microscope? What do the leukocytes look like? I have a scope but not sure what to look for exactly - what stain to use etc. I did use a urine test reagent strip on EPS and it blew up on the leukocyte test area.
I suggest you trust your test results and not try to second guess the labs because you've read some nonsense at the ANF and Prostatitis Foundation websites.

3) I don't want a useless course of ABX (or a useless string of expensive specialist visits :lol: ) but I feel like I need to totally and finally rule out bacteria, yeast, etc. so I can "believe in" and focus on the SP and muscle tension as the ONLY culprit. To this end has anyone cultured their own EPS for bacteria and/or yeast and if so how? I have access to lab supplies.
Please note that obsessing about infections is prohibited by our guidelines. If your labs results indicate no infection, then you do not have an infection.
4) How does alcohol aggravate the prostate? If I overindulge I feel like my prostate is overfilled the next day or 2 and I can express a large amount of cloudy fluid. This is why I suspect yeast involvement. I also get a vague but noticeable "itchy" feeling prior to ejaculation a day or 2 after heavy drinking. Also is "normal" EPS clear as ANF states?
Drinking alcohol raises the urine sialic acid levels (irritant) and alcohol itself (an irritant that can cause mouth and oesophageal cancer) is also found in the urine after drinking.

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First off, my post is all dependent on you having CPPS. I don't know if you do or not. I'm not a doctor. My advice is speculative, at best. And what I say may or may not even apply to you. But still, I'm glad you posted. It sounds like you are at the right place. And you sound like you have your head around this the right away. I've always viewed the SP as a no-brainer therapy, whether or not you are sure you have CPPS. There are so many parts of the SP that you can do for free, on your own while evaluating other options and causes for your pain. It just makes no sense to hold off on starting the SP when 90% of the pevlic myoneuropathy cases benefit from the SP. A big mistake many people make is to hold off starting the SP for the 6-12 months they take going through urological evaluations. If, as in most cases, the urological evaluations come back negative for more serious problems, the patient's condition has only worsened over the year, and their psychological state has gone down the toilet with it. Why not cover all bases and just do the SP while at the same time getting more diagnostic tests done (if that's what you want)? It makes sense to me. But I'm a biased SP-success-story so far, so my opinions are worth only 1.5 cents anyway.

Here are some more specific answers to your questions:
Also I am attempting to self-treat as much as possible for financial and personal reasons.
ANY treatment is better than no treatment. Technically, everything about the SP can be done by you (relaxation, massage, external therapy, internal therapy with a caveat). My caveat on internal work is that you should at least spring for 1-5 sessions with a professional so you learn what things need to feel like. Confidence in what you are doing internally is SO important, especially when the post-treatment flare-ups start. If you are not confident, you'll back off. Unless you REALLY stay with it, and REALLY trust yourself. And that's hard to do when the pain is bad and your emotional state hits the roadside. You can talk yourself out of anything during those times, even things that you know are good for you. But (my exception to my caveat), if you can't afford ANY treatment from a PT at all, don't hesitate to treat yourself. Your quality of life depends on it. But if this is the case, you need to do things differently. I would recommend working slowly, and building up your therapy step by step (this is good advice for any of the therapy you do, not just internal work). For example, start by working around the anus, and the muscles there. Then work just inside the anus (the area just inside the opening). This area is one of the most active for trigger points, and one that benefits pretty quickly from therapy, and is also one of the less "dangerous" spots to work on (although all spots can be dangerous if done incorrectly), as well as one of the most accessible. I'd work on this area for a while, until you are comfortable with it and get a sense for the flare-ups that occur on it. Once you've gained some experience, you can work a little deeper. HOWEVER, working around your prostate will be difficult AND can be dangerous, no matter how much experience you have. If you have a girlfriend or spouse, getting them to help do any of this therapy is a big help. Significant others can make a big difference in therapy, and can be a PT resource for the rest of your life. They can save you tons of money, and therefore investing in a few PT training sessions with a professional and your significant other is well worth the investment.
1) Where should I begin with the SP? Are there trigger points I can hit to help with the shy bladder more quickly? Are the relaxation tapes available without going to a seminar?
I would jump heavily into all stretching exercises, relaxation exercises, and external trigger point work immediately. One mistake people make is tiptoeing into the SP. This doesn't work, and people never see the full benefit of it, and just give up when the first few flare-ups occur. Do it all. Do it long. Do it hard. Don't give up. And be tough. Grit it out, and you'll see improvement eventually. I say "eventually" because the norm for improvement is anywhere from weeks to years. But if you are a good candidate for the SP, you'll see improvement at some point. How soon depends on where your trigger points are, how many there are, how tough they are, how you treat them, and lastly, how your body heals. There are no guarantees on any of this stuff.

For stretching, read up a lot on what you see here. For many of us, abdominal stretches (cobras and the like), squat stretches, groin stretches, and hamstrings and lower back stretches are key. Note that in my case, stretching did little until I started to break down my trigger points with therapy. After that point, the stretching made a huge difference. It improves muscle tone and blood flow, giving your tissue vital food to heal and prevent oxygen starved tissue from reforming trigger points. But once a trigger point is dead-set on sticking around, you have to forcibly remove it via therapy.

For external work, buy a Theracane. Now. Today. It is a life saver. Don't discount external trigger points. I was amazed at how important my abdominal TP's were for my testicular pain (my worst symptom) and minor penile burning. This cannot be understated. Also of key importance for many of us are the muscles in the perineum. These were a source of almost all my ejaculatory pain, and a few months with the Theracane has all but eliminated that symptom. For Theracane work, don't be shy. go easy at first, learn your body, and then pour it on. You have to dig in those muscles to get the TP's out. And it will hurt at first (you'll have a bruising sensation on the tightest muscles). But, eventually, you'll work spots that don't hurt any more at all. Note that there are many abdominal nerves that will always hurt when you press on them, but this doesn't mean that TP's are always there or coming back. But the pain will lessen as you improve. The basic rule is: if it hurts worse than comparable spots near it or on the other side, work it out with the Theracane. If it causes flare-up pain, work it out harder. Once you get going with the therapy, don't back off. You'll just be giving in to the pain. And don't make your "good" flare-ups for naught. You have to go through it. Just get it over with as quick as possible, as many weeks or months as that may be. (never evaulate your progress during the first 6-12 months - it's just not worth it).

For relaxation (you asked about it above), there are tons of tapes on relaxation, from cognitive relaxation, to progressive muscle relaxation, to anxiety reduction. Do a search on the forum for best tapes, and you'll find a lot out there. Without Dr. Wise's tapes, you'll just have to do the best you can. But basically, you need to relax those pelvic muscles and keep them relaxed. For me and many others, the moment to moment relaxation during the day is key (always being aware of your tension level and causing it to back off as often as you can - notes on the desk help).

For internal work, you can pretty much read my first response at the top.

And that's the SP in a nutshell. Just get started, and if it turns out you never needed it, well, that will be $0 you just wasted.

2) Has anyone looked at their own prostate fluid under a microscope? What do the leukocytes look like? I have a scope but not sure what to look for exactly - what stain to use etc. I did use a urine test reagent strip on EPS and it blew up on the leukocyte test area.
Don't know this one.
3) I don't want a useless course of ABX (or a useless string of expensive specialist visits ) but I feel like I need to totally and finally rule out bacteria, yeast, etc. so I can "believe in" and focus on the SP and muscle tension as the ONLY culprit. To this end has anyone cultured their own EPS for bacteria and/or yeast and if so how? I have access to lab supplies.
Yes, you MUST believe in the SP to be successful. This is because it is slow, causes flare-ups, and isn't a quick fix. Without some believe and confidence, it is very hard to push through the hard stuff for a year. That's why you have to fight for even the smallest improvement, and recognize it when it comes, through all the tough emotional baggage you are carrying due to the pain. Still, I think you have to start the SP before you fully believe in it. Why wait until you can convince yourself of it's success? In the short term, trust us, and use the forum, and hopefully you'll get through the beginning. After you get your first flares, you can have more confidence that you are hitting the right notes.
4) How does alcohol aggravate the prostate? If I overindulge I feel like my prostate is overfilled the next day or 2 and I can express a large amound of cloudy fluid. This is why I suspect yeast involvement. I also get a vague but noticeable "itchy" feeling prior to ejaculation a day or 2 after heavy drinking. Also is "normal" EPS clear as ANF states?
I don't know the answer to this. I'll let others respond. I do know that alcohol exacerbates my IBS, which affects my abdominals, which are related to my pelvic pain. So I know it's not all independent. But as to your more specific issues regarding yeast and itching, I can't really say.
THANKS!!! in advance for any help or advice. I feel like the SP will be the way to go but I need to clear my mind of "what-ifs"so I can give it 110%.
No problem. Use this board for support. You're not alone. All your answers are here if you look hard enough. We all hate this problem, but we have to stick together. Do the SP, while at the same time as you eliminate all the "what-ifs". Cover your bases. And check in here often for support when things get rough, letting us know how the treatment is going.

Mike

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This is NOT medical advice. I am NOT a doctor.

Age: 43 CPPS: 10+ Yrs Recovery Status: 80-85% Symptoms: Pain in testicles, scrotum, rectum, prostate, perineum Makes Worse: Anxiety, Tension, too much Nookie Makes Better: Stretching, Abdominal Massage (Go Theracane!), Relaxation
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CppsDad wrote:I've always viewed the SP as a no-brainer therapy, whether or not you are sure you have CPPS. There are so many parts of the SP that you can do for free, on your own while evaluating other options and causes for your pain. It just makes no sense to hold off on starting the SP when 90% of the pevlic myoneuropathy cases benefit from the SP. A big mistake many people make is to hold off starting the SP for the 6-12 months they take going through urological evaluations. If, as in most cases, the urological evaluations come back negative for more serious problems, the patient's condition has only worsened over the year, and their psychological state has gone down the toilet with it.
I agree with the above completely. I started SP at the same time as I was going through the ABX "dope and go" known as a NYC urology clinic, and I am glad that I did.

Welcome to these forums! There are (absolutely) no absolute answers here but some very very useful advice. I'm afraid that if you are looking to completely believe in SP before you try it you are either going to have to be (1) gullible or (2) brainwashed.

There is insufficient proof to 100% believe in the SP. But if you are smart and reasonable, then Mike's above "no-brainer" philosophy, in my opinion, is great advice. Hell, I didn't believe in the SP until 2 years had gone by and my symptoms were clearly reduced by stretching sessions. For the first year it was just a theory I applied because I wasn't going to give up on myself, my family and wife encouraged me, and my brother and I were experimenting with SP-like approaches at the same time.

1) Don't underestimate the connection between the mind and the body. Not in some ephemeral spiritual way, but in a down-and-dirty interconnected feedback kind of way.

2) Stretch and relax. Repeat 3 times a day. Don't stop until it has been over a year of trying.

Pushing on my prostate didn't help me in the long term. Leaving it alone and did not sitting on it did.

3)My prostate produced very gelatinous, clearish, yellowish semen for 1.5 years of CPPS. Only after recovering a great deal has the force of my ejaculations returned to the expected levels and has the fluid in my ejaculations become more whitish and liquidy.

HOWEVER, if you search elsewhere on the net you will find many young men asking doctors on web sites whether having gelatinous, yellowish lumps in their semen is normal or not. All the doctors I have read on the web say it is perfectly normal and quite common. Especially as you age. And yes, 30 is old in biological terms, whether you like it or not. :lol:

4) Many forms of erectile dynsfunction are stress driven. Have you done the common tests for night-time erections while sleeping?

5) My brother spent two years chasing down yeast, bacterias, nerve scar tissue, etc, before he got serious about the physical therapy and relaxation and avoiding sitting. he is now symptom free, except he still avoids sitting in chairs for extended periods. I am also pain free, but avoid sitting for long periods as it tends to irritate my muscles.

6) I do have some pain today---> I had a cavity filled at the dentists and it hurts a little bit. The doctors wanted to know why I didn't need to get numbed whle they were picking at the soft tissue in my tooth. I explained that I had some experiences that made me comfortable with pain. Not that I have any now, except for my stupid tooth. I personally believe the SP was a signifcant contributor to my recovery, and I am currently a running experiment on whether it can prevent recurrence of symptoms.

This is not medical advice, and I am NOT a doctor of medicine or a related field.
* Age:33 Onset: February 2004.
* 99.9% IMPROVEMENT in 2.5 Years with the first year being the really hard part
* Current Symptoms: Mild irritation of perineal muscles on occasion. Relieved for days at a time by a specific stretch (see below).
* Initial Symptoms: Terrible penile, urethral, rectal, and perineal burning/aching with addition afferent sensations.
* Current Treatments: Deep stretching of the legs and pelvis. Most effective: Deep psoas and levitar ani stretch using the first phase of the "pigeon pose" from Yoga. When a deep pulling is felt in the middle of the pelvis next to the upper rectum, symptoms are completely alleviated for several days.
* Past Treatments Hyperprotection of the perineum for 1.7 years, Walking, Rectal biofeedback, Stanford/Wise-Anderson Protocol, Conditioned deep relaxation practice, Men's Multi-Vitamin and an Extra B-complex pill, all seemed to help.
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First of all thanks for the welcome, advice, and encouragement. I am working on the SP (especially Moment to Moment PR - it is amazing how I have been walking around tense "down there" all the time and was not concious of it!) and external massage.
I have noticed a firm hard area in my perineal area. The closest AHIP trigger point diagram to match it is probably the external bulbospongiosis. It feels like an oval or oblong knot sort of. Is this knotty area a muscle or the bottom of the prostate? It doesn't cause me sharp pain but it is achy normally and a bit sore when I press on it firmly. Is this a "trigger point"?
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Hey there,

I'm afraid I'm not exactly sure where in the perineum you feel this knot.

Keep in mind that in the perineum (the region between the scrotum and the anus) there is a ridge that runs down the center from the scrotum area towards the anus area. This ridge had a bump in it where some tissue overlaps. This is normal and not necessarily a trigger point, but I know that when my perineum was at its worst, that ridge always felt very sore, hard, and 'pushed out. My perineum is now much software and less rigid.

It can be tough telling what is normal and what is not normal when it comes to the perineum, since most of us never even think of that place as a 'thing' with muscles in it until we get this pain there.

This is not medical advice, and I am NOT a doctor of medicine or a related field.
* Age:33 Onset: February 2004.
* 99.9% IMPROVEMENT in 2.5 Years with the first year being the really hard part
* Current Symptoms: Mild irritation of perineal muscles on occasion. Relieved for days at a time by a specific stretch (see below).
* Initial Symptoms: Terrible penile, urethral, rectal, and perineal burning/aching with addition afferent sensations.
* Current Treatments: Deep stretching of the legs and pelvis. Most effective: Deep psoas and levitar ani stretch using the first phase of the "pigeon pose" from Yoga. When a deep pulling is felt in the middle of the pelvis next to the upper rectum, symptoms are completely alleviated for several days.
* Past Treatments Hyperprotection of the perineum for 1.7 years, Walking, Rectal biofeedback, Stanford/Wise-Anderson Protocol, Conditioned deep relaxation practice, Men's Multi-Vitamin and an Extra B-complex pill, all seemed to help.
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CppsDad wrote:
3)My prostate produced very gelatinous, clearish, yellowish semen for 1.5 years of CPPS. Only after recovering a great deal has the force of my ejaculations returned to the expected levels and has the fluid in my ejaculations become more whitish and liquidy.
sorry but I have no dictionary here.
does "clearish" mean " transparent" ? or "translucent" ?

Personally my semen is gelatinous, translucent, and its like if the mix between white mixture and translucid mixture is not done
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Jef, I meant translucent. Not transparent.

This is not medical advice, and I am NOT a doctor of medicine or a related field.
* Age:33 Onset: February 2004.
* 99.9% IMPROVEMENT in 2.5 Years with the first year being the really hard part
* Current Symptoms: Mild irritation of perineal muscles on occasion. Relieved for days at a time by a specific stretch (see below).
* Initial Symptoms: Terrible penile, urethral, rectal, and perineal burning/aching with addition afferent sensations.
* Current Treatments: Deep stretching of the legs and pelvis. Most effective: Deep psoas and levitar ani stretch using the first phase of the "pigeon pose" from Yoga. When a deep pulling is felt in the middle of the pelvis next to the upper rectum, symptoms are completely alleviated for several days.
* Past Treatments Hyperprotection of the perineum for 1.7 years, Walking, Rectal biofeedback, Stanford/Wise-Anderson Protocol, Conditioned deep relaxation practice, Men's Multi-Vitamin and an Extra B-complex pill, all seemed to help.
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I would go and see a one of the physical therapists recommended on this board just to get an evaluation..There could be a easy to fix muscle problem lying on the surface which a specialist will be able to fix very fast.. I see so many people trying to do self-examinations.. I have done it myself too without much luck.. A physical therapist sees hundreds of people a year, they know exactly how every spot and every muscle of a human body should feel to the touch and everything.. and you or I dont ... They will find things that are not normal during the first or second visit and tell you about it..By doing self examinations you'll probably find some bumps or weird things and sensations, but which are completely normal and which every person has..and miss things that are important.. I remember my pys. therapist said this and that muscle is not normal and shouldnt be like that while those bumpy and uneven areas I was worried about were completely normal same as all other people..Doing self work you could be picking at say your hernia or hemorhoids without knowing it.
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OK, too lazy to change my signature, but my sympoms have improved significantly, some went away competely. Old sig below.

Age: 27 | Onset Age: 23 | Symptoms: differ from year to year, anal/buttocks pain(especially when moving around/walking), burning when pee every once in a while, muscle tightness after peeing, sometimes but rarely burning after,, but no urgency , i pee about 4-5 times a day. Stomach bloating, hard to pass gas, occasional sharp pain in right side lower abs.

Helped By: alcohol(maybe i am wrong about this one,, helps some symtoms, possibly makes other symptoms worse), water, Beer always cures urethra pains/burning.
| Worsened By: showers, defecation, massage?, stress, winter, early spring, Snapple diet iced tea?.

Makes no difference: sitting(try putting something under back legs of your chair to tilt it slightly), masturbation(2-3 times a day usually),(update, now down to 1-2 times a day), used to ride bike without a seat on for 4 hours some days 3-4 days a week- no problem, spicy foods - no problem, 3-4 cups of black tea a day- no problem